How do you stay conscious and grounded as you move through moods, life stressors, and the responsibilities of being a parent, partner, and community leader?
Life is busy. Yet life is beautiful. It’s a choice how we show up every day — for ourselves first, and then for those we love. Parenting is the greatest gift I have ever received, and it didn’t come easy for me; therefore, I embrace it entirely. The time we put in comes back to us tenfold in raising integral, kind, and genuine human beings. It has been a beautiful window for understanding myself as an individual. Our kids teach us so much if we listen. They also teach us to be patient and compassionate with ourselves.
Self-care is essential not only as a parent, but also in our relationships, career lives, and all that which we are responsible for. We must show up present and balanced. I am very ritualistic. Ten minutes a day is my motto. Every day I take ten minutes to move in my studio space — Pilates, dance, yoga, or martial arts; the disciplines I’m most connected to. I also find fresh air daily in the quiet of nature by walking my four-legged best friend, Koda.
Beyond movement, I prioritize sitting in stillness with breathwork for a few minutes every day — call it meditation if you will. It is usually early in the morning before the household wakes up. My mother gave me this solid advice, and I took to it. I also choose my friendships wisely and value my friends: a small group of individuals where we see each other as whole human beings. “I’ve got you” is big and is never a question with my relationships.